Speaking Engagements—Topics

We speak at conferences, club meetings, businesses, and public and private elementary, middle and high schools. Our presentations run approximately 60-90 minutes, including Q & A (optional).

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Topics recommended for middle school and high school audiences

Topics recommended for elementary school audiences (K-8)

If you are interested in booking us for your conference or seminar,
please call 408-262-6837 or email us.
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Understanding and Strengthening the Parent-Teen Connection

Parenting teens can be complex and frustrating. Maintaining respect in the family is crucial during the teen years. We’ll show you how to positively impact your relationships by understanding the workings of the teen brain, using approachable communication to stay connected, and learning to diffuse anger while mending hurts and misunderstandings. Putting these strategies to work for you will help prepare your teen to thrive through high school and beyond. top

Parenting Your Teen with TLC

Raising teens is not as bad as it seems. Learn parenting strategies that help you stay cool and worry less as you face unexpected parenting challenges. Find out how the “Time-Limits-Caring” method will help you to survive these often turbulent years. By understanding the importance of normal teen development you will learn to regulate conflict by transforming misunderstandings into connection. These parenting techniques foster love and honesty, while setting boundaries that keep your kids safe. top

How to Reduce Conflict between You and Your Teen

Conflict is inevitable during the teen years and every parent struggles with communication challenges of one sort or another during this life stage. Parents wonder if the relationship will ever get back to normal. Both parent and teen want a satisfying relationship embraced with respect and love. In this seminar parents will be taught how to keep common conflicts from escalating, survival skills to transform conflict into harmony, and methods for improving communications with teens. top

5 Keys to Successful Parenting of Teens

Raising teens is no picnic. Here's relief with bountiful benefits for parents of teens. This humorous and informative presentation will gift you with the know-how to improve your relationship with your teen by attentive listening and thoughtful responding. Parents will learn five new methods for working together to achieve harmony and balance in the changing family, communicating in a way that allows for both teen and parents to get their needs met.   top

Talking to Your Kids about Responsible Sexuality

Parents usually want to address issues of sexuality with their kids, but in many cases do not know how to begin. This workshop will explore ways to initiate discussions about issues of sex and sexuality. You will be taught how to creatively educate your child - lecture free - about the damaging physical, emotional, and spiritual consequences of engaging in pre-marital sex. Blueprints will be given to help parents establish essential family rules and guidelines that will help keep their children safe. top

Fathering Teens

Your role as a father is one of the most important and challenging jobs you will ever have. Positive fathering can improve a difficult child's behavior, as well as build up and strengthen an entire family's relationships. Research indicates that fathers who are highly involved with their children in an affirmative way do better in school, have greater happiness, lower levels of delinquency and attain higher levels of education and economic self-sufficiency. Emphasizing the importance of the fathering role, men will learn to communicate effectively and listen, while building the most important relationship a child can have. Steve shares the six pivotal habits of loving and engaging fathers. (14 – 19 years old) top

The Onset of Adolescence: Understanding Your Changing Child

Help! What is happening to my child? I don't know him anymore! Parents, do you find you've navigated smoothly through the elementary school years and then suddenly, almost overnight, you seem to have lost the kid you once knew? This popular presentation uses humorous anecdotes and real-life stories to entertain participants while educating them on what is normal adolescent development. The biological, emotional, and psychological changes that occur as a child begins puberty and enters adolescence are addressed. Using skills they already have, parents will learn to cope with and adapt to their changing child. top

Blueprints for Raising a Responsible Child

Every parent wants to raise a child capable of demonstrating responsible behaviors.  Many parents worry about their child’s ability to stand up to peer-pressure, especially during the teen years. Our straightforward, research-based methods will help you gain the traction you need before heading into the often turbulent teen years. We’ll show you how to parent with the future in mind by understanding how current parenting practices impact your child’s future decision-making abilities. You’ll learn how to use discipline, not punishment, to build maturity and foster responsibility, and how to make and enforce family rules and decisions. top

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please call 408-262-6837 or email us.
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"I wanted to thank you for delivering a great seminar to our Miller community this evening. As expected, you were informative, relevant and entertaining.  I observed several people taking lots of notes and paying close attention to your presentation.  I am confident that many of the audience members have taken away ideas that they can immediately implement in their relationships with their teens.  I know that I will!  As we discussed, I actively engage the "3 questions only" practice with my two teenage sons (they give me '3' when I wish to ask them about school, the dance, etc.).  It works!"  —Lori Stafford, PTA President, Miller Middle School


"You folks took the roof off last night! I can honestly say, everyone was enraptured by your enthusiasm, expertise, honesty and comprehensive tools you shared. The stories and anecdotes really brought the information home and reinforced that our lives are not unique or alone. I dove into both the CDs and books last night and feel like a cloud is being lifted off my shoulders."  —Lianne Wong Lamb, Marketing Manager, Commonwealth Club of California


"My husband and I attended your presentation at ND and I would just really like to thank you. It was so enlightening to hear you both share your personal stories. I had been really sad that we had to literally FORCE my 13 year old son to go on vacation with us. It was nice to hear that is normal behavior.

"When we got home last night my daughter asked me to tell her three things I learned (shock!) She really liked the idea of the 'amnesty talks.' We actually had a conversation!"

"Wow! I feel so hopeful whereas before I was feeling overwhelmed thinking I am making mistake after mistake. I am enjoying reading your book and now my husband wants the CDs. You both are wonderful, entertaining presenters and compliment each other's personality perfectly. Thank you again from the bottom of my heart." —Michele Holscher


"Mary Ann and I want to thank you again for your outstanding presentation, 'Teaching Your Kids About Responsible Sexuality,' at the Palo Alto Middle school on Wednesday evening. We certainly had a more remarkable turnout than anticipated, which is a sure sign that parents are eager to hear this information. You had so many suggestions for getting the dialogue going, and for getting it going early and often! Your backgrounds as educators and therapist, husband, wife, and parents of teens provide great credibility to a difficult and delicate subject. Your team approach was very complimentary to your styles and viewpoints." —Jane Moss, Palo Alto, CA.


"Steve, I've listened to your Fathering Teenagers tape dozens of times. And when I am at odds with my son, I can hear your words in my head and I am able to relate to him in a different way, a healthier way."  —Jim, Bellarmine dad


"I attended two of your workshops last September in Seattle. I thoroughly enjoyed them and I purchased five of your audio programs, which I have shared with my friends. I want you to know what a positive impact your words have had on me and I want to thank you. I am listening to the CDs again to refresh my mind of all the key points. I'm lucky in that my boys are 10 and 6, so I have time to get my parenting act together before the 'teen" years.'"  
—Polly H., Carnation, WA

"Wonderful presentation, down-to-earth, realistic, and humorous! The Sasos understand the struggles of being a parent, and provide strategies that help you enjoy your parenting role to the fullest."  —Mary Lyons, Principal, St. Joseph of Cupertino

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